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There are some classic summer dresses and there are also some new designs that would appeal to some of us who like more of an avant-garde fashion style.

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Denise

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First date anxiety feels very familiar to all of us. I was 16 years old when I had my first date -yes I was a late blossom- and I was in the highschool. We still had school busses back then. There was this girl in the bus, riding with me everyday. She used to wait for the bus at the same spot close to my home. She had a certain mysterious look in her eyes that made me curious about her. She had long black hair and big black eyes which add to the mystifying image of her. So I was contemplating everyday how to start talking to her.

It was not very convenient to ask her out in the bus. Therefore one Friday afternoon I jumped out of the bus after her and asked her out. To my surprise she said yes without hesitating. We decided to meet the next day, Saturday, at the corner coffee shop.

That whole night, before meeting her, I thought about what I could talk to her about. I had not a clue about her. So I decided to talk about myself on our first date.

Next day I waited her for more than 1 hour. She showed up as I was thinking about leaving. She was genuinely sorry and a bit sad. But she always looked sad in the bus everyday going to school. I couldn’t ask her about that. I didn’t want to interfere in her life on our first date. Yet, I did. I asked why she looked sad all the time. She paused and looked at me and she smiled. She started talking about herself all of a sudden. I listened to her whole life that day on our first date. She taught me the meaning of a peculiar word that I had not heard before that day: “Saudade”. She said she had the Saudade hunting her and that she was both sad and happy at the same time, being the captive of this mood.

Being sad and happy at the same time. That was one concept I had not taught about before then. I must admit I always liked listening to people and she hit the right spot that day. It was a very comfortable first date, and to this date I have always thought about it when I go out for a date.

My first date tip for you: Just be yourself, and let the other person open up for you. Be genuine and watch your date, be sensitive and be apprehensive. People love people who listen. Listen and give feedback. Talk about yourself too as you are giving feedback. Open up yourself too. I believe dates are a great chance to know more about ourselves. Love yourself first to get ready to love another person.

I have some interesting first date questions for you! They are funny, they are conversation starters. But I warn you, try one or two at a time. Do not ask all of them on the same date, that would sound creepy Here is a link to our article on First Date Questions.

Good Luck

Looking Back

Even as I write this header, I think about Henry David Thoreau’s quote, “Never look back unless you are planning to go that way.” Hindsight is 20/20, and it’s easy to think about the past and say, “coulda, woulda, shoulda….” For example, we have a contest running right now – What Is Your Biggest High School Or College Regret?, and I think about what I might have done if I was 16 with a 35-year-old brain. I would have studied harder, probably would have chosen a different major, and definitely would have taken a few more chances. But that’s not the way life is. And I’m OK with that. I may not have ended up where I had planned, but I’m definitely right where I’m supposed to be.

Looking Forward

And so, rather than lament over the lost opportunities or wrong decisions, I think about what I want, starting today. One user makes an important point about seizing the day, asking, If you found out you were going to die tomorrow, would you have any regrets? This is a great question to get our minds turning, reminding us all to carpe diem! Whatever your answer may be, write it down and do it. Start tackling that bucket list, one action item at a time, no matter how small or large the list may be.

“Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets.”
― Arthur Miller

Mel
GirlsAskGuys.com Team

Spring Dating

Spring is the perfect time of year to start a new relationship. The flowers are blooming, the zoo animals are giving birth to new baby animals…….blah blah blah. Let’s get real – winter isn’t conducive to outside makeouts and late night booty calls. All I want to do at the end of a January night is go home, put on warm PJ’s, jump under the covers, and fall asleep watching old episodes of “Parks and Recreation” on Netflix.

Sexy, I know.

But I digress. According some, Spring Is The Right Time For New Love. Weigh in and let us know if you agree! And if it is, come prepared. Check out this article on What To Ask On A First Date.

Spring Break

I don’t get a Spring Break…..but man, I wish I did. Sometimes when this time of year rolls around, I close my eyes and pretend that I get a whole week off to do whatever I want, wherever I want. So please….. let me live vicariously through you and tell me What You’re Doing For Spring Break.

Wherever you are, whatever you do…..I hope you’re enjoying the warmer temps. I plan on celebrating by rolling down the windows in my 12 year old VW and singing “Bad Girls” by MIA at the top of my lungs.

Yeah.

Mel
GirlsAskGuys.com Team

Feeling Down

Perhaps you’re going through a breakup. Maybe your job isn’t everything you had envisioned, or you’re unemployed. Or you’re struggling to lose weight, and it’s nothing but a battle. There are so many things in life that can invoke depression and anxiety, both of which are at an all time high. Life gets rough, and it’s easy to feel lonely and hopeless.

You are not alone. While you may see many with smiles on their faces, remember Plato’s quote – “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.”

Get Rid Of The Dead Weight

First things first – get rid of the negative elements in your life. Delete your ex’s number from your phone, and throw away the photos and reminders around the house. Stop gossiping at work, and don’t let your coworkers or superiors affect your emotions – check your baggage at the door. Throw away the junk food, and get off the computer. Do you find that you’re feeling sorry for yourself when you’re on Facebook? Guess what – so do a whole lot of other people…just check out this question, ‘Does Facebook make YOU sad?’ It’s hard to see people smiling, on vacation, buying fancy things, and eating out every night. Take a break from FB.

Stay Positive

Now that you’ve cleaned out the bad, it’s time to concentrate on the good. One member asks, “How do I stay encouraged even though everything around me is negative? Get up and move, even if you’re just taking 15 minute walks throughout the day. Stay hydrated, and take the time to eat properly – it can make all the difference in the world. Schedule time with friends, and if you’re low on cash, organize a pot-luck/BYOB at someone’s house. If you’re struggling at work, write down what’s making you unhappy, and any questions or challenges that you have. Have an honest discussion with your boss or your coworker, and don’t get emotional.

Volunteer. “Numerous studies find that helping others, and being able to practice appreciation and love is the defining mark of the happiest human beings,” says Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, authors of Helping Yourself by Helping Others: Altruistic Behavior Makes You Happier!

When you’re down and out, be patient. Good things will come if you just hang on. Good luck, and remember – if depression and anxiety is taking over your life, seek professional help.

Mel
GirlsAskGuys.com Team

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In A Relationship

This year, Facebook shows my status as “In A Relationship.” While I’m not a huge fan of Valentine’s Day (I can always appreciate a man who shows affection on a day doesn’t instruct him to do so), it’s still nice to give and receive gifts to show you care. Guys, looking for the perfect present? Check out Valentine’s Day Gifts For The Woman In Your Life – we’ve got ideas no matter if you’re broke or rolling in dough.

And ladies – if you expect the romance on V-Day, you gotta be ready to give it to. Take a look at Valentine’s Day Gifts For The Man In Your Life for penty of great ideas.

It’s Complicated

Going through a rough patch with your honey? Unsure of what your status is? Got your eye on someone, but you’re not sure what the next step is? Relax. Don’t make Valentine’s Day a bigger deal than what it is. Pick up a card that expresses your feelings, suggest something casual and fun, and have a backup plan. If they decline, brush it off and enjoy your evening regardless. Hey, at least you tried. Have dinner with mom, go out for a drink with friends, or stay in and watch a movie (avoid network TV – they’re all cheesy V-Day specials).

Single

I have spent many V-Days single, and I have to say…..it’s really not so bad. There are many other folks on the anti-Valentine train, so you’re not alone. Let’s face it – you’re saving cash and avoiding the pressure of being the so-called “perfect” Valentine. Plan something with friends, like a movie night or bowling. Check out Match.com’s events around town, or your own city’s “F*** V-Day” parties – or even host your own! It’s a fun way to meet new people and forget about the lovey doveys surrounding you.

Whatever your current status, make February 14th a great one. And if/when you do find that special someone, make sure this isn’t the only day of the year you show how much you care.

Mel
GirlsAskGuys.com Team

What to Wear

It’s hard to stay warm and comfortable while staying stylish and confident. However ugly UGGS may be, I admit – they are toasty and I love the way they feel.

But I leave those at home, and on those cold January nights, I pull out my riding boots (in both black and brown). I got them at an end of season sale last March for next to nothing. Paired with an over-sized sweater and leggings, I’m feeling comfy and cute. Another option for the ladies – pull the miniskirt out, but wear a pair of thick sweater tights and boots to keep your legs warm. A cropped jacket will top off the look.

Guys, I haven’t forgotten you. I enjoy some nice denim and a sports jacket for a night out. Keep those distressed jeans in the closet – while the holes and rips are appropriate in the spring, they look a little ridiculous when the temps are freezing. I also like cords and a fitted sweater, and don’t forget a scarf!

What to Do

The ideas for summer dates are boundless – walks, bike rides, wineries, etc. Winter is a bit more challenging, because outside isn’t an option (at least not all day or all evening). Some great winter dates I have been on were simple yet fun – hot chocolate, a short walk, ending with a drink at a local pub. Short on cash? Yeah, join the club…. check out this member’s question, Ideas for a date when you’re broke?

However, if you’re at the beginning of a relationship, be careful of what you choose for a date. There are some Places That You Shouldn’t Go Until You’re Past Date #3.

Staying In

I have to admit – after the holidays, I turn into a homebody. The thought of going home after work, putting on comfy clothes, eating leftover lasagna, and turning on Netflix. If you’re the same way, spend some time in with your date. Pick a flick that both of you will enjoy – my favorites are Scent of A Woman, Shawshank Redemption, Ted, Avatar, Moneyball, Office Space, and Animal House. Not girly chick movies, not testosterone-filled action flicks.

And a hearty, warm meal is enticing, so I love Pinterest for some delicious ideas, like the Dumpling Squash with Cream and Sage. Or maybe some Winter Veggie Fiesta Chili.

OK, I have to sign off, because my mouth is watering, and all I can think about is chili. Stay warm, friends, and enjoy the freshly falling snow and rosy cheeks.

Mel
GirlsAskGuys.com Team

Flirting and Facebook

Social networking can be a great way to attract a member of the opposite sex…..if done correctly. Otherwise, it can be detrimental in the flirting process!! Do it right! Read Three Easy Steps to Attract A Girl On Facebook for tips on how to share, like, and post to get a girl’s attention!

Facebook Relationship Status

Can creating, showing, or changing the relationship status on Facebook affect your relationship? Check out this member’s question on her Facebook Relationship Status, and how it has changed.

Facebook and Breakups

Facebook can complicate a breakup, with a change of status, photos of an old flame, and the ability to stalk your ex and see what he/she is up to. It can also be the source of your breakup!! Read this member’s question: Facebook Breakups- when is it okay? to find out what members say about Facebook breakups.

Remember – Facebook can be a terrific way to keep up with friends, family, fun events, and showcase your life, but when it comes to relationships, it can be huge source of stress and complications!

Mel
GirlsAskGuys.com Team